While the ring in the display case may look absolutely perfect, if you wear it on your hand it may not be quite the same. For example your band could be too chunky, the diamond could be too high and the style could just not be right.
Using bespoke engagement rings ensures that you have made your own choices.
Couples in Malaysia will have plenty of options to choose from such as understated solitaire rings. Or intricate designs using oval, pear or emerald cut diamonds. While it is important to make sure that you have made some unique choices, you should ensure that you have made small choices that ensure you will love your ring as you will likely wear it everyday.
Consider How the Person Will Wear the Ring
Before looking at the diamond size, consider how the person will wear the ring.
If your partner is a manual worker they may want something with a low profile so that they don’t snag it on their clothes. If they like delicate jewellery then a thin band and simple centre stone may appeal to them.
Small details can really make a difference.
A high-set diamond will stand out more but could get caught in your pockets or gloves. A bezel setting wraps the stone in metal giving a smooth finish.
If you’re planning a surprise proposal then consider what jewellery your partner wears. Take note of what metal they wear, what width of ring they have and what style they love – simple or detailed.
This is often more helpful than looking to keep up with the latest trends!
Why Consider Man Made Diamonds
Another consideration is what type of diamond you want.
Man made diamonds or lab-grown diamonds are real diamonds that have been made under controlled conditions.
They are chemically identical and optically identical to natural diamonds. They simply differ in how they were created.
Lab-grown diamonds tend to be cheaper than mined diamonds meaning that you can look at different sizes or qualities.
Don’t just go for the biggest diamond.
A well cut diamond will be more attractive than one that is heavy but poorly cut. Look at the cut quality, colour, clarity and carat.
Novita Diamonds based in Malaysia specialise in lab-grown diamond jewellery.
What Shape Diamond Do You Want?
Diamond shapes really can change the look of the ring.
A round brilliant diamond has become a classic shape and has been designed to reflect light well. Oval diamonds give a longer look. Emerald cut diamonds give a wider look with clear facets.
Pear shaped diamonds give an irregular shape to your ring.
Straight lines can be achieved using radiant and princess cut diamonds.
When looking at bespoke engagement rings you should consider the shape of the diamond. A long diamond may look different on a very thin band. Ask to see the design from the side so you can see how high the setting is, how the prongs are placed and how the diamond will be held.
What Metal Colour Do You Want?
The metal that your diamond is set in will also affect the look of your ring.
White gold gives a shiny look that complements colourless diamonds. Many white gold rings will have a rhodium coating that may need refreshing.
Yellow gold gives a warmer look. This works well with vintage inspired designs.
Rose gold is pink due to the alloy used. Whether this is a good choice will depend on your personal taste and if you are sensitive to the metal.
Platinum is another option. This tends to be a natural white colour and does not require rhodium coating. However the surface can become tarnished over time.
As Malaysia is a warm country you should also consider how comfortable your ring will be. A correctly sized ring with a smooth inside will make wearing your ring easy.
Know What You Are Getting
Before finalising your bespoke design you should know what you will be getting.
Ask your jeweller about the diamond grading papers, purity of the metal, measurements of the setting and how long it will take to create.
Written bespoke engagement ring designs can be really helpful. This way you know exactly what band width, diamond size and finish you will be getting.
Ask if there will be any alterations. It can be more difficult to resize rings with diamonds wrapped around the band.
Couples looking at Novita Diamonds in Kuala Lumpur can look at their range of engagement rings and talk to them about what bespoke options they can offer.
Consider the Full Cost
It is easy to get carried away looking at the price of diamonds.
Your total cost may depend on the diamond, precious metals used, complexity of the setting, extra stones and bespoke design.
Ask for a full quote in Malaysian ringgit (RM). Make sure that all costs are clearly noted.
If you are looking at different jewellers then make sure to compare similar diamonds and settings. A cheaper quote may simply be because the diamond is smaller or less weight of metal.
It can be helpful to decide on a total amount you are happy to spend and work around this.
Allow Time for Alterations and Resizing
Bespoke jewellery can take a few steps to finalise. This includes approving the design, choosing the stone, creating and finalising.
If you’re proposing on a certain date then ask how long it will take to deliver.
Resizing can also be an issue. Your finger size can change depending on the temperature and time of day. Be sure to check your size.
If you are looking at Novita Diamonds Malaysia then taking a look at their styles and talking to them about resizing or bespoke requirements can help you decide what will work with your proposal date.
A well planned ring doesn’t need to have lots of details. Choosing the right proportions, secure setting, comfort and careful diamond choice will make a simple design feel very personal.
